So, I’m kinda having fun recording these voice-only “episodes”. So much so, that I’ve done it again. Today is super emotional for me because it marks the day that my dad passed away. Though I think of him EVERY DAY, this day is especially hard on me. I’m not completelyRead More →
I’m going to keep this post short and sweet because the audio will explain everything. One thing I would love for you to do…listen to this true-life scenario and give me your thoughts. Does this create any relationship red flags for you? What part of the scenario creates them? WhatRead More →
Q: Hey Monicha, do you ever want to get married again? Me: Bahahahahaha…… Seriously though, a second marriage is pretty much the last thing on my mind right now. Don’t get confused though, being a divorced person doesn’t automatically put me in a “bitter woman” category or the “destined toRead More →
It has been a year. And it has BEEN. A. YEAR. One year ago today, I walked out of the courthouse after an anti-climactic final judgment, as a single woman. “Today I close the door to my past, open the door to my future, take a deep breath and stepRead More →
Friends, it’s time for some real talk. The divorce process is hard. Filing, all the paperwork, the litigation, court appearances, depositions, meetings, possible mediations and the settlement. But during the process, you think about the After. What’s going to happen when this is all final? Where am I going toRead More →
This blog entry here, is for the mamas. The Single Mamas. Now, I don’t mean to cause division because motherhood is already difficult enough, but being someone who has been on both sides – married motherhood and single motherhood – whooo, being a Single Mama is a WHOLE different beast.Read More →
Some observations… Here we observe the species “Mother” in her natural habitat – what we call her “home”. She has also been spotted inside large buildings called “schools” and “offices” and in moving vehicles with her offspring. She presents herself smiling, her skin in its natural state, hair slightly disturbedRead More →
You know, one of the things I was scared about when I thought of becoming a single mom was outings. Sure, I’d been a stay-at-home mom for over 9 years when I got divorced, but I was in my element INSIDE the house. Playgrounds, parks, grocery stores, Target runs –Read More →
My Team “Monicha, this is going to be the most important business decision you make.” – My Divorce Lawyer He wasn’t wrong. He also told me (multiple times) that I need to go to law school and become a lawyer. Now, Steve…you know my life. Maybe a little bit downRead More →
Dang. I didn’t know my pending announcement of my new course, COVERED, would cause such a mess on Facebook and Instagram. 😂 My bad. Listen, I’ll go into more detail later, but y’all, this offering is the BUSINESS. COVERED: Bringing clarity to the unknowns of divorce, works for Ducks. Yes.Read More →